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writes:Hey everyone!Having some trouble...I'll try to make it brief!Liked this guy for a few month, weve been seeing eachother, and weve really hit it off, i can honestly say ive never felt like this before, i even ended up losing my V to him!Anyway, that's not what this is about..The other night we were at a party and his ex turns up. Not so sure if she knows about us, but she was following him everywhere, and if he would talk to some other girl she would flip and make a scene asking him what he's doing. She was weird with me, and im pretty sure if she knew about us i would have been turned to shreads.Basically, her being there ruined the night, i didn't get to enjoy it with him, and i don't know what to do about him, if he has an ex that's like that. I didn't sign up for this.I like him so much, i can't even explain it, and i really want to be in a relationship with him.He's said to me he's just got out of a long term relationship with this girl and he wants to take things slow, which i understand and everything, but i don't know, it's just messing my head up a bit, i don't like not knowing where i'm at.I don't know what to say to him, I don't know how to make things normal, I'm like craving to see him, but i don't want to fall too much for him if this is what i'm going to have to be dealing with.Any guidance? Any advice? Just your opinion in general would really help me out on thinking what to say and do.Much appreciated guys! X X X
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (12 October 2010):
 Ok well it sounds like his ex is definetaly still not over him and is acting out of jelousy. You need to be honest with this guy and ask him does he see himself getting back with his ex as you dont want to end up falling for him and getting hurt, if he is sure he doesnt want to get back with his ex then dont let her come in between you this is what she wants and at the end of the day he is entitled to see who he wants so just sit and have the talk with him, tell him you understand that he doesnt want to be in a relationship so soon but that you dont want to keep going the way you are for him to go back to his ex.
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