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writes:Im seventeen years old and im in love with my school resource officer. i know he cares about me because he tells me all thee time but i cant helpp my feelings for him. i always want to be around him and i do anything i can to have an excuse to see him. i even called him just so i can hear his voice. he makes me smile and laugh more thn any other person i kno.. its been two years now and my feelings just get stronger.. i had a boyfriend when i first met him and i couldnt stay in the relationship. i think of him at night. i wish he was laying next to me. he knows EVERYTHING about my life and were really good friends. ill be 18 in a couple months and i want to stop these feelings b4 i do something dumb. he is married with two beautiful daughters. its turning into an obbesion honestly and ii need help or advice something. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2010): When I was a junior in high school my school resource officer, who was also my volleyball coach, was found out to have been having an affair with the 17 year old girl who was the VB team manager. Let me just say that it ended BADLY for both of him. He was never put in jail, because cops look out for their own. She, on the other hand, was subjected to unimaginable harassment from other kids at school, boys and girls. She dropped out, and I don't think she ever finished high school. I was her friend, and it broke my heart to see that happen to her. I often wonder what happened to her. She was a very beautiful girl, smart, friendly. So, my advice to you is, DO NOT have a relationship with this guy. He is married. Leave him alone. If her persues you, he's a sexual predator. If you persue him, you're a homewrecker. Leave him. Forget him. It'll take time, but you will get over him. Trust me, if you don't try to get over him now, you'll spend the rest of your life trying to get over the consequences.
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reader, NibblerEnvoy  +, writes (11 October 2010):
First of all, your seventeen, this is a crush on your resource officer, pretty sure its not love.
If the guy has told you anything in return, i.e that he loves you or cares deeply for you then this guy is doing something that he shouldn't, hes in a position of trust there should be nothing between you and if there is, he can lose his job, face prosecution and harassment.
I think the best advice for you, is to try and get over this crush, meet new people, talk with your ex, but most of all, don't act on this, it's gonna have repercussions for everyone involved and you wouldn't want to hurt his family or yourself in the process.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (11 October 2010):
 You will turn thirty something one day, look back, and then all you would feel is disgust at men who take advantage of a young girl's heart, while masturbating next to his sleeping wife. Your obssession will end if you actually ask him to lie next to you. Call off his bluff. Not that I would suggest you to actually do that, and please don't do it! You are writing us because your fantasies have become frustrating for you. You are idealizing a man who is being emotionally unfaithful to his wife. What is it that this officer has that you boyfriend didn't? It's the unending sequence of mystery and waiting, the thrill of the next thing happening, or won't happen. This thrill is not going to last forever. What you can't have doesn't make the fruit sweeter.
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reader, Sabriena14 +, writes (11 October 2010):
 Hun,
Hes a teacher so no matter whether he likes you or not, due to how he met you, you can't be in a relationship until after you're 18 as he is in a position of trust and even after you're 18 it is very highly frowned upon. Try and avoid him as much as possible and every time you see him remind yourself about his daughters and about hoe they need their daddy
Sabriena
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