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writes:Okay, I'm only sixteen years old. This is a long story but if you have time please listen. It all started around three years ago when I fell in love. Although this a long story I'm going to cut it short! Well I fell in love with a guy that lives 1000 miles away from me and we'd see eachother every single holiday. Everytime we saw eachother we'd be very attached and depedent on eachother. For instance, we couldn't be away from one another for more than a day! Everyone could tell we were young and in love. We were always holding eachother and kissing eachother and giggling and flirting. Oh yeah, not to mention we'd talk for hours and hours on end. Worst of all, this was summer love, thus we shared many lovely moments. For example, walking along the beach going for walks at 4 A.M, driving on his bike together. Anyways, we have been on and off through out the years but we'd always end up getting back together. However, we also had a lot of drama in the past. This time it was my fault. I was very controling over him and snappy and I feel horrible about it. By controling, I mean it could so bad I'd feel jealous when he went out with his friends because he wouldn't be inside talking to me on the phone. However, this time we both agreed that we would like to move on. By the way, he broke up with me this time. I am still completely in love with him and I ALWAYS think about him that is...non-stop. My future was based around him and I feel like I will never feel as comfertable being with another person as I did with him and love another as I did him or vise versa. I know that this sounds crazy since I am only 16 years old and I have a whole life ahead of me but it's truly how I feel. I feel like in the future I'll regret trying to move on because I won't and he will and it will kill me to see him with someone else.
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reader, petina1  +, writes (11 October 2010):
 It's only normal for him to be out with his friends. If you get together over the holidays and always have done, that's nice. We always take it a step further in relationships and with each step comes a new level to adapt to. If one of you can't adapt at the same level and want different things thats when the cracks appear. Yes you are young. People who meet at a young age can have long and happy futures together. You have distance between you and that in itself is hard especially when you are trying to cling on to what you have. It will always be a difficult situation for you both. Maturity can bring another level where y ou will discuss properly what you have, what you want and what you are going to do about it. I wouldnt like to be your age again, it's so difficult growing up and handling relationships as it is. If you are meant to be with him, then it will happen. Give him his friends, and his space and enjoy the times you do have with him.
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reader, Thorn, +, writes (11 October 2010):
If you cant be with him, then at least try and still be friends with one another. also talk to him, ask him again what he really wants, tell him how you feel.
If there is no possiblity of you two getting back together you need to accept this and move on - i no this is going to be hard but you are young and there are lots more guys out there who will make you feel love again
at least try to work out a friendship
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