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writes:Dear Cupid,I am 18, and the guy i'm "seeing" is 20. We met through one of my friends at a birthday party and as we both have blackberries, we exchanged pins so that we could talk on blackberry messenger, as it is easier than texting and it's free.We have been talking for about four weeks non-stop. When i say non-stop I mean, the day we added each other, we got home and he started a conversation, and since then the conversation hasn't stopped flowing. Pretty surprising to be honest, but we don't reply to each other straight away, takes about any time from a minute to an hour, but the fact is, we havent stopped. Even at night, one of us falls asleep and the conversation is picked up from where it left off, the next morning.We have met up twice during these four weeks.First time we met up, it was pretty short, we were just in the park for one hour, talking.. and I let him borrow a dvd he wanted to watch.And the second time we met up we went to the cinema, and he returned my dvd back to me, and then he dropped me home.At the cinema, we were sitting really close together as it was horror film and he had his arm around my shoulder. No other moves were made.It's been over a week since I last saw him, now he hasn't even mentioned seeing me again. I dont know if this is normal because to be honest, i haven't been on many dates at all before. And seeing as we still talk every single day, im slightly confused as to what is going on..He works in a store at a shopping centre, and I was supposed to go the shopping centre today, and i told him last night that i might be coming and I asked him if I should come say hello to him and he said "Yeah" and left it at that, and the topic soon changed...Does he like me? Do you think he wants to see me again? Cause when I asked my friend and she said seeing as its been over a week and he still hasnt asked to see me again or mentioned anything about meeting up, he might not be that into me, but then again, i cant just take one persons advice and go with that cos she doesnt know him to say that. And a guy would know how guys work more than a girl would..What do you guys think?I didn't get any replies the previous time i posted a question similar to this, so I hope i get a response on this one.
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reader, [?]BitterSweetFinale;[?]  +, writes (11 October 2010):
![[?]BitterSweetFinale;[?] agony aunt](/avatars/7bb1e9ea-6c2f-43b8-a4f7-0635b7eff08c.png) Have you ever asked yourself if he's looking for a relationship? Maybe he doesn't want to get hurt.. He sounds interested, but his job may get in the way as he seems to be busy with that also.
Don't overreact, since you both talk everyday non-stop than I'm positively sure he has a force of attraction towards you. If he didn't like you, he wouldn't even bother. Learn to not jump to conclusions hun, xoxo.
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reader, misspurple +, writes (11 October 2010):
i feel he does have interest in you. When you say he hasn't mentioned meeting back up with you.. have you mentioned it to him...?? when a guy puts his arm round you at the cinema he is not thinking of you as a friend. Dont read too much into things, men are pretty blunt sometimes, if he just said "yeah" to go visit him where he works, he means simply "yeah" so you should go visit him and ask him if he wants to meet up again because you have enjoyed the past few times. He may be in the same boat as you and thinking you are not interested so just go tell him you are! :)
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