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writes:so im a little confused with my boyfriend or ex or whatever he is. We broke up not to long ago cuz i made a mistake. But everyone makes mistakes and i think it can always get sorted. So anyway we live together and been dating for 5 years. We kinda been avoiding eachother (i no its a little hard well living together) an kinda giving eachother space. Then we started talking again an things started getting better for us i thought. We basically started going slow again by watching movies an just hanging out. No sex or anything. Things were great. Then just recently on friday he all of a sudden does a 180 an we back to square one saying what he said before that it cant work anymore an all this. Almost like his recent memory got erased an it went back to 2 weeks ago that we first broke up. So i told him ok ill go stay at a friends for awhile so you can get your space. He says ok so thats what happened. My question is what happened? do men pms? or did he let his brain wander to think bout what had happened or just would rather be mad. Im not sure...please help. I dont no what to do
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (11 October 2010):
 He might simply have tried his best for 2 weeks to "swallow " your mistake, and seen that he just can't.
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (11 October 2010):
 He might prefer negative emotions, some people are comfortable in them, some people crave drama in relationships but maybe he did visit old memories and old emotions returned. He may not have sorted things out in his heart yet. No one can ever truly know except for him. You can choose to give him space or save yourself the trouble of a drama addict and leave him. I cannot be sure because I do not actually know him so I can only venture a guess.
I hope that helps.
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