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anonymous
writes:I asked my husband of 2 years for indefinite time off but he won't give it to me... I feel like I need it because I don't know if I love him anymore, I said to him that despite what he thinks I'll take it and he asked me to sign the divorce papers... Is time off so bad? He says I'll get over him and forget him and he doesn't want to lose me but he didn't do much while I was still at home, it's like one of those guys who avoid problems and rather act like there isn't any until it's too late... I feel sad but I believe going back now would be a mistake... What do you think?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2010): Get yourself and your husband off to counselling - You need to give your marriage a chance.
You need to reconnect with your husband - and if after a lot of trying things are not right then it is fair to walk away knowing you and he have both tried.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2010): Hello!
I was just in counseling for repressing my emotions. Your husband may have something similar. In my instance, since Id been thru a rough childhood, I was exhausted by anger and as I got older when I somewhat felt it, Id ignore it and not address it til later when everything piled up on me. I suffered some consequence from it: mainly losing rest and some confidence. I didnt find this out til my counselor dug deep...chances are he may have some underlying issues. Hope this helps.
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