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writes:Hi there women of the world. What do you do when your man keeps staring at beautiful and attractive women when he does not think I can see him. He just stares intently at them. The other day whilst in Melbourne he was walking ahead of me and he had his eyes glued to the sexy blondes arse for a km.He always denies he is looking. I always feel hurt by his obvious sexual interest in these women.He loves being in womens shoe shops too and I know he gets excited by high stits and classy clothes. It is embarrassing and hurtful.So women should I put up with this behaviour or should i give him the flick. I do wonder if one of these women beckoned him over he would he run off with them!!! He has been living with me for 9 months now and I am an attractive women. Why is it some men just cant help but dribble over other women......... Reply to this Question
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reader, monkey friend  +, writes (11 October 2010):
I second the reply of start staring at other guys. He'll notice and when he says something about it you reply something like "You do it so why can't I?"
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2010): Give him some of his own medicine.... change your look, start wearing sexy clothes and telling him just how sexy that guy is [especially younger guys]...
You have only been living together for such a short time - is he living with you because of finances or because he really wants to be with you?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2010): Play him at his own game and start oggling sexy men - see how he likes it! What is good for the goose.....
Good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2010): Hi!
As a guy, I find other women attractive but I dont usually act on it. Like I dont pursue and rather look and not touch.
If he's looking at other women and is fantasizing, thats another story. He quite possibly shouldnt be in a relationship right now because as a woman, you def deserve the attention and exclusive benefits of a committed relationship.
Try asking him why he stares and what his intentions are when he does. Ask him if he fantasizes? Ask him perhaps if he's put off by something in the relationship? Hope this makes sense and helps. Best to you.
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