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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi I am in my 2nd year of uni and I have this crush on a female lec and im female too? She's about 33 ish. Is this ok? lol I daydream about her and me together :sthanks
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reader, CrystalTippsx +, writes (11 October 2010):
 Yeah, totally. However, as this is your lecturer it is illegal to act on these feelings. It's fine to have a crush on her, as it would be if she was male, but as I said it is illegal to have a relationship with her, and it is quite unlikely that she would also be bi/gay and then that she would have feelings for you. You'll get over her soon enough, but for now it's fine to daydream (: x
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reader, oliviababes +, writes (11 October 2010):
 if shes so pretty ask her out!
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reader, person12345  +, writes (11 October 2010):
 Sure it's OK to daydream and fantasize however you like. Why wouldn't it be? But that is an enormous age gap and she's in a position of authority, so you should act on it. But it's healthy to fantasize about either gender.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2010): you're more than welcome to daydream about being with anyone and anything you chose. When if comes to acting on your feelings, I wouldn't do it, personally. Approaching a lecturer, male or female, and showing that you're interested in them isn't a good idea. Relationships or attempted relationships between students and faculty are generally frowned upon and can lead to scandals. Anyway, I'm guessing you don't know how this woman feels about you at all.
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