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writes:ok, just want to know is it normal for a guy to watch porn alot? i mean like almost once a day? and why? when you have the real thing that does anything you want and enjoys it just as much....and why don't he ever initiate if he just wants oral or anything really, i mean is this normal?
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reader, person12345 +, writes (11 October 2010):
 What Cerberus/Raphael said? Spot on.
Basically, if it is something that really bothers you, you should talk to him. And don't let him tell you that all guys do it or it's natural. Because neither is true. Ask him how he would feel if you were masturbating daily to a hundred guys with ripped abs who are hung like donkeys.
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (11 October 2010):
 Something I have never really understood. I suppose it is a primitve lustful want for a voyeauristic experience but I have never really thought that logical at all when they have a wife or a girlfriend in your position who enjoys it and would try anything.
Many men are getting addicted to pornography and they refuse to admit it or even try to stop it. I suppose it is because of a hormonal drive that leads them to such actions. So many women have been hurt because of it but their husbands of boyfriends refuse to give it up. Once a day does not seem too bad nor does it sound like an addiction but I would still talk to him about it.
Now, when you do discuss it with him, he has undoubtedly said "it's okay, everybody does it" or "it's completely normal" or even "I don't know why you're so upset about it". IT IS NOT NORMAL! Just because everybody else does it or allegedly does it, he has no reason at all to think it is normal or okay. Because it is not okay, it is not healthy. People, especially men, link pornography with masturbation as if it were one and the same. They think it is healthy but it is not, it corrupts one's thoughts and introduces unhealthy impurities. Some women reading this would probably think "well, I watch it with my husband/boyfriend and we're completely happy" or something along those lines but, it just is not right. It is not healthy. Masturbation can be/is healthy but pornography is not, at all. What is so healthy about a voyeuristic desire?
I hope that helps.
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