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*oveMeAlways1390
writes:Like most couples at the start of my relationship with my boyfriend we had plenty of sex, all the time and everywhere. I understand that it's normal for this to calm down a bit after a few months or so but recently my boyfriend is just tired all of the time, I would say we only have sex about once a week and I want it a lot more. To me it just seems like he can't really be bothered. It is really starting to get me down and it is making me question whether he actually still fancies me. He always tells me how beautiful I am and how he loves my body etc but why doesn't he want me? I'm more sexually experienced than him and that is something that has always seemed to bother him but I regret a lot of things about my past and he knows that. I feel like when we do have sex it is quite boring but I have suggested trying new things and he doesn't really seem very interested. Any help/suggestions on what I could do? Reply to this Question
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reader, person12345  +, writes (12 October 2010):
 You should sit down and try to work out a solution. Maybe he's really stressed, that's the number one libido killer. Maybe he's bored and needs a little more "spice." Like jumping him at an unexpected time, wearing sexy lingerie, something like that. I'd recommend trying those things first.
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