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writes: Well, helloUhmm, so this guy and me dated awhile ago, only for about a month or so. We broke up because he started talking to his ex girlfriend again and I knew he loved her still, I just couldn't handle competing with her... So, we decided it'd be best to break up. We still continued to talk, we couldn't go a day with out talking. We're kind of like best friends, I guess... But, the thing is every day after school, he drives me home and before I get out of his car, we kind of kiss and make out for a little bit... Every single day we do this, I'm not gonna lie, I really like kissing him so I don't stop him. But, its starting to really get to me that we're not dating or anything at all... He talks to a lot of girls, like mostly all his friends are girls and they're kind of always all over him and flirting and stuff... They're all super pretty too, they're way better than me... It makes me wonder if he's also doing the same thing to these other girls as he is with me... I act like it doesn't bother me, because it shouldn't bother me, we're not dating... I just don't know what to do, I'm trying to just go with the flow and let things fall into place, but its begining to be hard. Please give me some advice. ..Should I keep going along with this, or should I end it? Thank you soooo much.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (12 October 2010):
 Ok well its normal for you to feel this way even though you arent dating. and am afraid to say this but if you keep on letting this happen it is going to hurt you more and more because you are going to end up falling deep for this guy so you need to find out the truth now one way or another. So the next time he kisses you stop him and ask him were does he see you and him going? Ask him were you stand because you need to know. If he doesnt want to get back with you then you need to try and cut contact with him just tell him its to hard for you to continue kissing him and being affectionate when you know he is not yours, just be honest with him and to yourself darling.
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