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writes:Well, firstly i will try to make this short !and the question is, What do i do ?Basicly, I met my Girlfriend, ex should i say when i was 17. We had good communication between each other, were madley in Love, she even helped me get over a cannabis addiction i had in the first year of the relationship, and after that there were no issues, and so on...then she broke up with, me.3 months ago we had an argument because She said, she started to get bored and didn't like the fact that we never did anything ( go out to eat, shopping etc...).So we went out a fiar bit and did things together, and it got better....Then it went back to doing nothing.She then started at college, got loads of new friends, met loads of new people, went out loads, and began to isolate me. Then she said, beacuse we did nothing she made plans with friends instead of with me, and basicly had a good time, and began to feel she was better single, and that she Didn't Love me anymore...I dont blame her, it all went wrong !I can face that !THE ISSUE IS, that now, its been 2 days since we broke up. And obviously i hate my life, coz i still love her, want to be with her, but she doesn't, And, Im not going to force anything, as it will make more Heart Ache for me.THE Problem is, i do nothing now....(and won't for ever !)I look forward to 6 O'clock, when works over, to get home, but then, Im Bored ! I work my 5 days of the week, look forward to the weekend. Hate my days off as i do nothing and am bored. 1 big terrible boring circle basiclly.....I have had many friends in the past, but now they are in relationships, dont come out, work too much, or are away at UNI.I have 1, real friend who i can see when ever i want, and talk about anytyhing..(Sounds good so far), BUT he is a full blown stonner, and when i am with him all we do is drive around, waste my money and petrol and get HIGH... I dont want to dot that ! ! !! ! !So as i said, instead, i do nothing at home..I am a Outgoing Prerson, Very Charasmatic, Love Groups of people etc.... BUT i have pretty much, the shitest friend EVER ! or thay smoke weed !.So basicly, what i want to know, if anyone knows the answer,,, what do i do.. i cant sit at hom e bored all the time, i need people around me, make people happy, i need to enjoy myself, but, within the circles i am in ( Work people, old friends, current friends), i am as i would say F**ked ! !please someone have some advice, or have been through a similar thing(i know i may make this sound very bad, due to being rather emotional from literally just breaking up with my girl friend, who i still do love, but i can't hack a boring life !)What do i do ? thankyou !please do answer, i am desperate !
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reader, corbandallas  +, writes (12 October 2010):
I think you need to meet new friends. You should also stay productive. Join a gym, a soccer team, anything. You need to get out there and meet new people, you don't need stoner friends in your life. "you are who you hang out with", so I believe anyways. I hope that helps.
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