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How to ask out your older friend?

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Question - (26 November 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 26 November 2010)
A male United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Hi, I have a really good friend and she is 4 years older. We both really like each other although we haven't told each other directly. I'm 90% sure that she likes me and I definitely like her. I just don't know how to tell her or ask her out. Please help me out here! I can't stand waiting longer or seeing her go out with a another guy! I just can't muster up the courage and I just don't know what to say!

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (26 November 2010):

Realistically, at your age at the moment, this probably won't happen. You're 13-15, which means she's 16-19. For her own safety (in terms of underage sex etc), she wouldn't really be able to go out with you. So, at this time, I'm afraid it's a case of waiting. Maybe one day in the future it will happen. My girlfriend is older than me. But whilst you're still a teenager, and underage, I think it's best not to pursue her.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2010):

I'm sorry mate but at your age, and she's 4 years older than you, it's just too much. She likes you as a little bro. A 19 year old girl isn't going to be seen dead kissing a 15 year boy. And there is no way a 17 year old girl would be seen holding a 13 year old's hand. When your 20 and she's 24, that would be different!

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