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female
age
41-50,
*hanib
writes:How can you talk to someone who doesnt listen to your points and becomes intimidating and aggressive. The problem i have is that my partner of 8 yrs and i have recently split up this was due to a combination of things. He moved out 6 mts ago and went to live with his mum, he went on nightshift,i had trust issues with him, we have 2 small children.He was going to move back in with us and then his mum found out she had lung cancer and has stayed at home with her. We never saw alot of each other and our relationship has drifted apart. I cant talk to him as he is very dominating and only hears his points of view, he is currently not speaking to me and acts like he hates my guts, he had a go at me in the street the other day, how can i make him see that this wasnt a proper relaionship and that it has gone stale and sometimes things just run out of steam. I have fallen out of love with him but he seems to think that i should of carried on with things as they were, put up and shut it situation.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (26 November 2010):
 If he hassles you again just be clear to him that your love for him has died and you dont want anything else to do with him and that the only time you want contact between the both of you if it is something to do with your children. Goodluck.
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