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writes:So I have some sex problems...Ever since I started masturbating when I was 16, I've always jacked off very fast and gone until I cum (which is about 1-2 minutes) and then I stop, causing me to go down/limp. This has come back to bite me because I can only have sex with my girlfriend for not even a minute before I cum and then I go limp, this doesn't happen when I'm on the bottom but she likes it when I'm on top more. Me and her have talked about it before and she just tells me to try and hold it in, but seeing has how she's my first I have no idea how to "hold it in".Over the past 2 years we've been trying different types of condoms and still no luck, I tried the "Long Lasting" condoms, I didn't cum at all but they made me limp as hell. We had some luck finally a few weeks ago by switching up positions a few times but other than that I'm not too sure what to do?Also, my girlfriend complains that my penis is not thick enough, is their anything I can do about that? I measured it a long time ago but I think it's not even an inch thick.
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reader, jpat5991  +, writes (3 December 2010):
 For me Trojan Magnums work I always go a long time with those, and Uh the pleasure condoms suck as Twisted pleasure, Shared pleasure and her pleasure are good.. But I had this problem only one time when we had sex. I usually last a good 15-30 mins without cumming, when i feel like I have to I just Squeeze my buttcheeks together which squeezes my pc muscle and my sperm always goes down, or ill just switch positions. Maybe your going too fast or thinking about cumming too fast which makes it happen cause its all mental.Go to youtube and search triangular breathing I used it once, but I have no idea how I keep it in now and hold it I dont think at all during sex..
Did you measure your girth correctly with a cloth measure tape?? Cause 1 inch think i havent heard of that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2010): Odds, advice is a good one.
Also when you feel that you're about to cum, press the shaft of your penis away from you. Not to hard, but enough that you feel you don't want to cum. Wait a short time, and start again.
Like you when I was young, could only last a few mins, but now I can last for over an hour.
You've got part of it right already anyways, keep your sex sessions interesting, and try different ways, say 5 mins at a time. Also, pull out totally and play with her still, she'll be still hitting her Os, while your fella takes a breather for a while. You can always start him marching again!
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reader, Odds +, writes (26 November 2010):
 Two parts to this:
1) Start masturbating again. Deliberately take as long as possible. Find a porn site with a video lasting a full ten minutes, and try to make it through the whole thing. If you're getting close, stop stroking and look away from the screen, then go back when you can. Stroke slowly.
Then, go up to fifteen minutes, then twenty. More if you can handle it, but twenty should suffice. After a while, when you finish, clean up and go a second time, this time without a minimum until you feel you're ready. In other words, re-train yourself. It'll take a while, but it'll pay off.
2) Any girl who complains about your penis size has committed a dumping offense. She did that fully aware that it was the equivalent of you calling her fat and loose. There is nothing you can do to change your penis.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2010): Ok buddy , as a man , don't try and use any of those artificial penis growth methods , they will damage your goods or not do anything at all as for the problem I have no advice , im just making sure you don't hurt yourself.
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