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writes:Do you think men will "look" at other girls more when their own relationship is lacking?Also, are you more attracted to other people (and would be tempted to dump the old partner and get a new one) under the same circumstances? (i.e. when your own relationship is bad) Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2010): men look at women regardless of their situation just to boost their ego if they look back
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2010): If your relationship is bad you either fix it or get out of it. If a man stays in such a relationship he'll inevitably start to have fun elsewhere.
Men look at other women all the time. It's in their genes. It doesn't necessarily mean he's about to dump you. As long as he doesn't touch you should encourage him to look - point out the totty for him if you wish, but make sure he points out the hunks for you in return.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2010): Oh blah blah men are hardwired. No they are not. I have dated men who look and men who dont.
Some men respect and love their girlfriend's and wives so they dont 'need' to look. Others have a roving eye and arent even aware they do it.
I think its only when you have dated a few men that you notice the difference.
I would also like to add that just because a man looks doesnt mean he will cheat and just because he cheats doesnt mean he will look at other women all the time when you are out together. I think each man is different and personally I wouldnt date a guy who looked at women or who cheated women. Am I single no, am I happy yes!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2010): Men look at other woman whether their relationship is good or not so good. It's hard-wired into our dna to look at other women. Now, by "look" I don't mean that it's cool to ogle other women, or to look at other women in such a way that it is disrespectful to one's partner. But, men will notice other women all the time. It doesn't mean we think less of our partner.
If, however, there is a problem in a relationship that is not being addressed, then the concerns go way beyond "looking" at other women.
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