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writes:if my girlfriend is keeping a sweater from a guy who tried to kiss her and brought a lot of drama for her? To cut the story short, there was a guy who tried to kiss her and people accused her of cheating on me and it was stressing her out and giving her a hard time but it wasn't true but some of the drama is gone now and we are good but then she had that guy's sweater after all this happened.My best friend currently has the sweater she wants to keep from the guy and it kinda bothers me that she wants to keep it.She said she was going somewhere and that she needed the sweater and that she was going with one of my friends that I knew and I told her, why not ask my friend for a sweater? and she said because she doesn't want his sweater and I told her I'd give her my sweater and she told me that she doesn't like zip up sweaters and i even offered to buy her one but she said that she doesn't want me spending my money on her and i told her it wasn't a probably and i just wanted to make her happy and i told her she didn't have to accept it and she said no. But the money part isn't true, I give her money all the time and she says nothing about that.I don't know, is it stupid that I'm kinda mad that she wants to keep his sweater?Thanks for reading and answering.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (26 November 2010):
Half of me wants to say that this isn't a big deal at all, that it doesn't matter. After all, it's just a sweater, and it sounds like it shouldn't matter.
Yet, I have a feeling that there is more to this. I really do. Not because of the sweater, but because of the issues before. This other guy tried to kiss her and brought drama. He made your relationship difficult together, and there were accusations that she had cheated. She was 'stressed'. Yet, she keeps this sweater. That, coupled with all the problems before, is enough for me to say that there might be a problem here.
I would suggest that you sit down alone, and really think about this relationship, and all the problems before. There's not enough to say that she did cheat, but I just have a gut feeling that something is wrong with this whole situation.
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