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writes:Before I ask any question here is my back story:I have been dating my boyfriend two years now, however after our 6 month mark he cheated, more than once, I took him back because I do love him and I really wanted to make it work. Its been about a year and a half since he cheated and he still talks to other girls (which I know is never going to stop) how ever, he flirts with them A LOT, he even asks for nude pictures from most of them. Which I have just gotten used to, I am not happy that he does this, but hes going to do it no matter how I feel about it.Now he has randomly decided to go on a "sexual fast" for a sacrifice to God, to prove to him (God) that he is strong. Even before this sacrifice, we hardly had sex to begin with. I guess I just don't know what to do because he still asks for nudes from other girls, and has his "man" time, but he doesn't look at me, and doesn't want me sexually. But he is still romantic with me and tells me he loves me everyday. I am starting to become very unhappy, I am starting to miss my home, (I used to live over 17 hours away) and I want to go back home to be with my family. What do you think about this situation? What should I do? Is he cheating again? I am just so confused!
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (27 November 2010):
 He shows you no affection period, basically you're the bread winner and his roommate. Is the lease in your name I'm assuming? Well kick him out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2010): And one thing that I notice (poster again sorry guys) is that I have been putting on chapstick and lip gloss just so he won't kiss me. (He really hates when I wear it, and never kisses me if I do)
:( I don't know what to do because there is a lease on the apartment up in july, I can't wait that long!
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (27 November 2010):
If you're still paying bills, yes.
His behavior should tell you something. Dump him..otherwise he will keep on making you look like a fool for buying into his lies.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2010): This is the poster :)
I love him, when he is being really sweet and nice to me, it is great what we have.
You are right, he is a hypocrite for not wanting sex, yet asking for nudes. It just makes me so made, and every time I ask him about it, he says, "oh, it's from someone I don't know." and he lies right to my face, because I personally know some of these girls, (not as friends) AND they are linked from his phone, so I don't know what to do about it.
For over I year, I was the primary wage earner, so I was the only one paying bills.
Do you think I am just being kept to pay bills?
I love his family and they love me, but he is acting so weird.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (27 November 2010):
Ha, he's on this sex fast but yet he still asks for nude pics from these girls...so far he's failed God.
Let's see he's cheated more than once that you know of, he flirts with other girls, and continues to ask them for nude pictures, you guys don't have sex..But yet he still tells you that he loves you. He doesn't show it, now does he?
I'm willing to bet that he's already broke this sex fast and cheated on you. If he's not having sex with you, (and he sounds like a very horny guy) then he's getting it from somewhere. Use your brain and dump him.
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reader, DanceInTheDark  +, writes (26 November 2010):
 Every woman wants to be desired sexually. Every woman deserves to be with someone who desires them.
Leave.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (26 November 2010):
 The man is a player and a hypocrite. I could say a lot about this, but, in the end, my only recommendation can be that you stand up for yourself and leave him.
You have made more than your fair share here, you know?
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