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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I got chatting to this boy online a few months back we got really close and we met up a few times. I wanted to go out with him until he said that he had met this girl out downtown, he's now still in a relationship with her. I saw him today and got talking then we've been texting since he admitted that he really liked me when we were first chatting but i said that i didnt understand that if he did like me why did he get with another girl (clearly i wasnt that special) and he just said it was a stupid mistake that i was making him realise he made but I said I wanted to just be friends with him because i'd rather that than nothing and he said he felt the same and didnt wanna not talk to me anymore cus he'd missed me. I really like him still but just don't know whether to say to him that from day one, 3 months ago i've really really liked him (but then maybe he will feel like I'm trying to come between him and his gf which im not but i will be if i say it) or just leave it. I felt happy taking to him then he said his girlfriend was coming over it felt as if he was saying 'shes coming round now, i'll text you again when shes not here'. i dont want it to be like that at all, i want us to be friends if nothing more, but what do i do?
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (26 November 2010):
I'm with the post below. He had his chance, he failed to take it. Don't waste any time on him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2010): Forget him. He had his chance with you and didn't take it.
He's now having his cake and eating off someone elses plate.
Guys and girls can't really be friends once they hit that bit where they fancy each other. As in, take it from his gf point of view! Does she know about you? Would you be happy if you were dating him, and some other girl it turned out he had feelings for was texting him?
Most likely not. I say move on, and don't get ya heart broken over a player!
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