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writes:I moved back here a couple months ago, and was able to meet my best friend's girlfriend. She was nice, funny, and incredibly cute. Right as she and my best friend were starting to get serious, he broke her heart by dumping her. She cried a lot and I was there to comfort her, and in the meantime, fell for her. I later asked her out but she said she wont go out with me because she doesnt trust guys anymore. How can I get her to trust guys again?
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reader, Leon7 +, writes (27 November 2010):
Leon7 is verified as being by the original poster of the question hey, thank you for your help. It means the world to me. Anyone else, please, if you have any advice, Id love to hear it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2010): simple. most girls recieve comfort only from guys who want something! so be there for her and don't expect anything more than friendship until she decides to be ready! these things take time! some girls need an hour to recover, some need months! wait for her and be a friend who expects nothing more!
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reader, largentsgirl89 +, writes (27 November 2010):
 Be there for her no matter what when she needs you. Be her best friend in the whole world and you can build a relationship on that.
When she needs to talk, then talk with her. If she wants to sit in a comfortable silence, then sit with her. Just be there and show her that there are a few nice guys left in the world and that she doesn't have to give up hope.
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reader, VJay  +, writes (27 November 2010):
 Well..I used to be in a position where my girlfriend doesnt trust me at all and cant trust me because guys used to break her heart. So I tried to convince her that Im not the same like the other guys she used to date. I was there when she needed someone to talk to, I was there when she needed a shoulder to cry on. To say the least, I was more of a friend to her than a boyfriend at first.
After maybe around a year, she told me that Im the only guy she trusted. And now we're still together. So all Im trying to say here is, try to convince her that you're not like your bestfriend or the other guys she used to date, you wont hurt her, and just be there for whenever she needed someone to talk to. Im sure she'll go out with you, but it'll take time I guess. Just be patient with this one.
So..I hope this helps a bit and..Good luck.
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