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writes:Is it possible to have strong feelings for someone you've only met once? I'm in a tough situation and need your advice. I went to Vegas about a month ago now and on the last night there I met guy. We hit it off right away and was head over heels for each other like with a blink of an eye. It's crazy really. We've been emailing each other but we're still confused about wether we chould keep it going because I live in the US and he lives in the UK. We think it would be impossible to be with each other so a part of us doesn't want to talk but yet the stronger part doesn't want to quit talking. We are so similar it's weird and we have this weird srong connection. He's wanting to come visit. But here's a few more questions....should he come? Are we not thinking straight should we just let each other go? Or should we fight for this (may I remind you about our living situations)? We've also came to the conclusion (as of right now) that we want at least a friendship, so is this smart? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2010): of course its possible im going to tell you about a teacher i have, her sister met a guy that was on holiday from amercia for a week they couldnt be seperated and when he went back to america she went with him 30 years later they are still married they had obviously met their soulmates and they had the courage to take the jump. you only live once and if you dont take the chance you'll be forever wondering what could have happeneed and if it doesnt work out then you move on and find another guy you will never know unless you jump into the deep end
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2010): You've found the magic. Don't let go, until you know it just isn't going to work. Plenty of people have got married over time even though they've been apart.
Let him come over, or you go to the UK. Stay, don't rush things when you meet! (don't jump into bed, the need will most likely to do so)
Let a true relationship build up through face to face as well as through emails, letters, webcam chatting. If you haven't got webcams, get them and learn how to use them! At least that way you can see each others faces for when you're talking. You'll see when you laugh, when you cry etc etc.
Have fun with it. But it's spark, and not everyone finds that! Play with it, and see what happens. If not, it was just a holiday romance, how ever short!
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