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anonymous
writes:I am happily married but went abroad alone and fell in love with a single man. He started everything and i fell so deeply for him, now he called it off without any valid reason. I feel like a bitch...please help. I am still deeply in love with him and ironically what i feel for my husband is still very strong
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2010): Hon,
If you feel torn between two guys, ask yourself why. What happened that gave you feelings for the other man? Maybe there is something you feel you need that you are not getting in your marriage. That could possibly be resolved by talking with your husband. I have felt like that too, and after much reflection, I realized it was not the man I loved, it was the attention and love that I was not recieving. For the man you met abroad who called it off, I would definitely not hold on to hopes for him. As for your hubbie, maybe just chatting with him and getting out together may help you realize if you are where you want to be. You have one life to live, and you have so much to offer the world. Simply reflect, and don't be afraid of change. Bless you!
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reader, the_phoenic  +, writes (26 November 2010):
if you still love your husband
get your self buisy with allot of activities with him
and you well get eventually over that man
and dont ruining your marriage for an unpredictable situation with a man that you dont realy know
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reader, DenimandLace44  +, writes (26 November 2010):
 Put this into proper prospective. It was obviously a short time fling for him...he knew you were going back home and had no intention of anything going on past that.
You are at a vulnerable age, and you gave in to a sweet talking man. You arent the first one to have done that.
Put all of your passion and energy into making your marriage work...revive the spark. Figure out what is missing that made you vulnerable...and try your best to fix it. Your marriage has a history that cant be replaced. hugs, Denim
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