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Met someone else on holiday, and now I don't love my boyfriend as much anymore even though I cut off contact with the other guy!

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Question - (26 November 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 26 November 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 months. I went on holiday and met this other boy and when i got back of holiday we were texting and he told me he liked me and i liked him too! So i stopped texting him because of my boyfriend and now i dont love him as much as i did before i went on holiday. Well i do love him, i just have odd days sometimes. It stresses me out so much, will things ever go back to normal?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2010):

Just be single for a while and have fun. Holiday romances are classically fleeting moments to be enjoyed and remembered. But you are young and I think you need to give yourself time to just be yourself and enjoy life, you'll be in a better position, as time going, by to know what you want in life.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (26 November 2010):

If at just 5 months you've already felt like this about another guy, realistically, your relationship won't last. How long until another guy comes along that you like? I respect that fact that you cut contact with the other guy for the sake of your relationship. But I'm not sure yet that you're with the right guy. I'm thinking that you might well be better just having single fun whilst you're young, so later on when the right guy comes along, you'll commit fully and not text another guy.

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