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writes:Ok here is the problem my "Friend" always wants me to make the first move but i have problems cause i get shy. When I finially do start I start, then i have the major delema my "Friend" knows how to pleasure me just right he know where to go what to do and how long to do it. We havent even had sex yet and I think he is like a major sex god, but my problem is that i dont know how to pleasure him. I am afraid Im going to hurt him in some way. I have touched him but I havent really done much cause like I said I dont want to hurt him. How do I touch him to where he wants to bang my brains out? (I think that question is clear enough. :D )
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reader, 0000BraveHeart0000  +, writes (27 November 2010):
Well, if he knows that you have never done it before I am sure he would overlook it if you touch him the wrong way. He should love you to a point that all that matters is that you two are together.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionMy "friend" has strait told me he wasnt going to do anything without me doing any thing first. I have major shyness so it takes me a while before i can do anything. My "friend" has had sex before. That is the reason I called him a sex god. The thing im most afraid of is that i would be touching him the wrong way, but he knows what to do. I just want him to want me the way I want him.
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reader, 0000BraveHeart0000 +, writes (26 November 2010):
Sometimes, making the first move can be a bad or good thing. It all depends on the what amounts to a move and the person we are making the move on. In terms of move, it sounds like you are talking about having sex. Am I right? When making that move it is very important to note that you and your partner are ok with this. Because you do not want to make such a move with out giving the other person a heads up..could lead to an awkward situation.
Now, you said you have a shyness or fear that you are going to hurt him? One important tip, do not be afraid(especially if it is your first) and try to relax. Has your friend had any sexual experiences? When it comes to sex , maybe he can help you out with the whole 'banging your brains out senario'. There need to be communication between you two during (which is perfectly healthy). He can sure the different areas around his genitals etc that he gains the most pleasure from and you can do the same. That way, you would helping each other out as well as learning how to pleasure one another.
Wish you the best!
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