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writes:how can i fix my relationship? i am in a LDR with a guy and he flirts a lot. i am tired of it and i am tempted to cheat to get rid of him. we love each other but i am tired of games. please help me do what is best for me
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reader, MAGGIE2010 +, writes (27 November 2010):
 out of experiance with this type of man.When he flurts well go right along with him. Like when you are at the mall and you see a really hot girl,say to him man look at that she is fine,or when you see a girl with big breast say hey look at that she has some nice boobs or maybe a nice butt. Turn the tables on him and play his little game and see him look at you like....what....it will throw his mind..then he will probally stop. if he is only flurting than that is not going to hurt.but the more you let it bother you and he sees it he will keep doing it.Its a male thang but take my advise go along with him...flurt back.or just laugh and act like it does not bother you cause he is doing it to make you jealous and it is working.
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (27 November 2010):
 Do you mean he flirts a lot with you, or with other women? (and if with others, how would you even know about since you two are LD).
There is no need to cheat to get rid of him. simply tell him you are tired of the games and mucking about and you feel its not working. See how he responds. If what he says is unsatisfactory (assuming you have not tried to discuss this issue with him before now), then you tell him you are bringing things to a screeching halt, and will not start up again with him.......
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