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writes:i am in a committed relationship,since 17months.its a ldr.recently i asked my bf that does he wants to have sex with other girl.he replied that "he only loves me and can't think of other girl.but sex is a different thing.the more you put,the more you will get attracted.better be in control as my life is attached with u".he watches porn on a regular basis.i don't understand what this answer means?if he really loved me he should not have said that he's trying to be in control.this sentence has really made me upset.can anybody explain the meaning of those statements?
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reader, lacrymosa_652  +, writes (26 November 2010):
 Why would you ask your boyfriend if he wants to have sex with another girl?? That's sort of a loaded question.
I don't understand what what your boyfriend said, can you re-phrase it?
I think he might be saying that basically, no, he doesn't want to have sex with other girls, and he only loves you. But you'd have to explain what he said again properly, because it doesn't make sense.
Watching porn hasn't really got anything to do with anything... it doesn't mean he isn't attracted to you. But if you have a problem with him watching porn then there's no harm in you telling him so.
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