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writes:Okay, so i am 14 and my boyfriend is 17. We live about 20 minutes apart. We live in the same district, but different towns. Lately, our arguments have mainly been about seeing each other. Unfortunately, i can't drive yet, and he doesn't have his license. He only needs two more road lessons but at being $50 a piece, it can be expensive. He usually get's around by calling his friends for ride, but i was brought up to this idea being very rude. I feel bad when he asks his friends to drive us around, but at the same time i don't want to ask my mom. She has a full time job and her hours usually vary from 9-6 or 12-9 so she isn't home much. When i asked why his parents never drive, he tells me they cant afford to buy a new car. I don't know what to do. Please help me!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, soon567 +, writes (29 November 2010):
You sound so informative, so smart, yet clueless. Why I the H you want this man in your house? Nothing good can come of this and we all know why you want him there.
Penis plus vagina equals baby. Oh most states carry a 10 year prison sentence for your male friend. Go ahead google it for your state. Your mother is working and you want him there while she's away, has he ask for permission to be in her home?
At 17 with all this free time your guy has to chase a 14 year old he could spend it working. I think you need to inform your mothe what you two are up too.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (26 November 2010):
 First of all, you're not going to like this but, your boyfriend is too old for you. You're not even of legal age of consent for sex.
What's wrong with either of you using public transportation? Seeing as you aren't even of age to get your license and he doesn't have the money for lessons or a car then it looks like you're going to have to take the bus, taxi, subway, or tram to see him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2010): I am going to be honest with you here , at fourteen you should not be dating someone who is seventeen anyway , and to put a top on that your not having a relationship problem... your problem is finding an alternate way of seeing eachother and in that case I would say that you might want to see if you can cab there or just settle for not seeing him as often...
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