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writes:i am in a ldr relationship.i am committed to my bf since 1year and 4 months.me and my bf are soon going to meet and i want to spend some intimate moments with my bf.i want to have sex with my bf but i dun know how to say.moreover he doesn't seem so interested in sex,maybe because he watches porn on a regular basis.also,we have tried havin sex once bt it didn't worked.so i dun know how to ask my bf,what he will think?he has already mentioned that we can't do much things because there's no proper private place and he doesn't want to have in a hotel.what to do?plz don't say not to have sex or something like that.i want to have sex.no i am not addicetd.its just i want to feel my love more close.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2010): I don't understand what is up with your guy; any young man has raging hormones to Spare, and his own show brilliantly through his little porny habit.
I see no problem with you wanting to take things farther in your situation, just make sure to use (extra) protection (you know what that means) and, like you stated, be discrete.
Hm. Your guy is a puzzler. Maybe you should work on some seduction technique. If you're the lovely lass you say, try parading about and posing here and there in front of your stonewall in something absurdly (yet tastefully) skimpy and he'll likely take notice.
Cheers,
Tante Victoire
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhey am 17..ya he doesn't seem interested!
the other guys are just so desperate for me.i am a girl which almost every guy wants.i have rejected 20guys for my bf!!
look what the hell..i just wanted some lovemaking,so that we can come close but he feels i am only interested in these.but this is wrong.
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reader, DenimandLace44  +, writes (26 November 2010):
 You don't. He is smart enough to know he isn't ready and if you are mature enough to be having sex, you should be mature enough to understand...not everyone is ready at 16.
You should be cultivating a strong friendship and not obsessing about having sex. Denim
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2010): Okay, you might not like my answer. Having sex with your boyfriend is not going to make you feel more loved. I also don't think he should he watching porn because that is not helping you at all. I think you kinda think your not good enough for him because he won't give you sex. You need to ask him to stop watching that crap and pay more attention to you. I promise you, you don't want to have sex right now.
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