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30-35,
*ah mouw
writes:I have a lot of different groups of friends. But, there's one group (my boy and his family) that my mom doesn't really like, because of where they come from and the things shes heard them say (which is really no different from any other obscene stuff you'd hear any teenagers say when they're together). My mom says she doesn't approve of these guys but she hasn't really given me a reason why. I wanna let her know that these guys aren't bad people. They're really out spoken and kinda crazy haha. but they're some of the sweetest people and they love when im around and I love being around them. I feel like my mom thinks I'm doing something sneaky when Im with them. But when i hang out with them its no different then what i'd be doing with any of my other friends. We chill, we go to the movies, go to the mall. Nothing out of the ordinary. But how to i get that across to my mom. she wont even let me use her car now. I just want her to trust me. She knows I smoke weed... and knows I'm sexually active.. and she doesn't care. So... i dont understand.. can someone help me out here. Reply to this Question
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reader, AuntyMaur  +, writes (28 November 2010):
 Why ask for opionions when you only see your view - learn the hard way. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2010): You're 18, she can "disapprove", but that's just an expression of her position, not a mandate that you (and adult) have to do anything. She simply shared her emotional state, you do NOT have to DO anything about it... it's NOT your job!
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reader, lah mouw +, writes (27 November 2010):
lah mouw is verified as being by the original poster of the question i definitely just read my words. nowhere did i see im on a road to nowhere. im not even sure how you could get all that out of this. Ammmm i on a road to nowhere because smoke and have had sex? damn.. god forbid i smoke and be with my boyfriend.. I'm sorry... I didn't know you knew about my whole life to tell me where i am in it.
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reader, AuntyMaur +, writes (27 November 2010):
she sees your on the road to no where. read your words.
Your mother sees your future - repsect her - Mothers protect.
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