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writes:hi ive been dating this guy for a while and hes really nice. i have a wild streak and u know am a free bird and sometimes can do some pretty crazy things. ive never hidden it from him and was open with him from the begining of our relationship. he accepted it and seemed totally fine. well he told me a few days ago that he was going away 4 a week. i was like ok ill miss u. anyways he phoned me like now and we were talking and he then said that i musnt do any crazy things and that he has pple watching my back. whilst hes gone. does he think im gonna cheat? i never have and he knows that my wild side is a lot of things but never going behind someones back like that. or is it just hes scared 4 me? cause i am impulsive and do weird things. i dont think i like the feeling of him putting pple to watch me, or was he just warning me? and doesnt actually have anyone? Reply to this Question
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reader, largentsgirl89  +, writes (14 November 2010):
 It sounds like he is more worried about your safety than you cheating, "watching your back" sounds like he is scared for you. I don't know what you mean by weird or impulsive things. Be honest with him
Did he mean watching you as in every second or just people watching out for you? I wouldn't be comfortable with people watching what i'm doing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2010): I dont know what you mean by "crazy" things, but he might be concerned about you. If you have been open with him, he is probably worried about you :), either way, stay truthful to him and dont do crazy things, then after he comes back he will have more faith in you either way ^_^, dont give it too much thought. If really people are watching you, just let it be and consider it as him protecting you (its more special that way :D). If it is people watching because he doesnt trust you, well then as soon as he is back and he sees you are faithful, he will trust you more, no? So either way its good.
Sometimes we dont need to know the why as long we see the good side in things ^_^
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reader, Probablylucy  +, writes (13 November 2010):
 Do you think he was really telling the truth or having you on? Perhaps if you are prone to being spontaneous, it's not you cheating he's worried about, but your safety? However, having 'people watching you' does sound a bit worrying, but it sounds more like a joke or an off-hand comment that a crew of hired private-eyes. Hope it all turns out well!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2010): He may just be concerned about you but i wouldn't be happy with the thought of people watching my every move. If you're not comfortable then tell him you're not happy about it and you don't need to be watched, you're not a child.
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