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writes:Dear Cupid.... My friend Katrina has been dating this boy named Alex for about 8 months now. Me and Alex met the week they went out because I thought I should get along with him since he's going out with my best friend. btw, we are 13 years old. The thing is over the summer we grew closer together and started hanging out alot. We hang out at the skating every Friday and on one Friday he told me "If I never met Katrina I would've went out with you" or "Can you imagine us going out?" I usually don't answer these questions but me and Alex are like bro and sis. At the skating rink he told me "It's okay for me to kiss you on the cheek because we're bro and sis" I didn't kiss him or anything, but now I developed feelings for Alex and now I don't know what to do! I don't wanna feel this way! And I don't wanna hurt my best friend. Should I tell her how I feel??? Please answer this question!
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reader, JustKalie1010  +, writes (14 November 2010):
 I think I know how you feel. A similar thing happened with me and my best friend.
Honestly you should ask yourself. What is more important? Your best friend? Or this guy?
Personally, I think you should stay away from a little bit more, so you don't hurt your friend. If I was your friend, I would probably be really hurt!!
And in the end, your friend has always been the one who is there for you. And your friend will be with you forever through all the rough times and the best times. Why risk that amazing friendship for a guy???? Likely, he won't be there for you forever like your friend.
So whichever you think is more important, you should go for. Thats what I think :) Hope it helps
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2010): I think you should tell him how you feel & that it wouldnt be right if you guys were more than friends because he's going with your bestfriend & you respect the " girl code "
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2010): Don't tell your friend. Try and stay away from this guy as much as possible and don't be alone with him. If you do anything with this guy your best friend will never forgive you and you'll ruin your friendship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2010): Just try to focus on something else and try to be with him as less as posible for some days untill you are comfortable or you will end up with losing both the friends.
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