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writes:Hi there,i've been in a relationship with a guy for more or less seven - eight months (we hang out for an year), two years ago. After he left me because he told me he didn't feel anything for me, he fell in love with my bestfriend (now my ex bestfriend xD). He spent all the last year following this girl like a dog, and she didn't love him at all. She, actually, just wanted somebody to boast about. This guy and me last year, well, we just quarrelled every day, but this year we are trying to be friends because we have friends in common. It's almost a week that its behaviour is very strange: he hugs me, he kisses on my cheecks, he says nice things to me ... yesterday he told me that he doesn't love my ex bestfriend anymore and that he wants to spend more time with me, but today it was as nothing has happened. He spent all the daytime with the other girl, and my bestfriend, suddenly, seem to be very interested of him. What should I do? I still do love him, and it's so long time that I don't have a boyfriend that I'v almost forgotten how to find one .What do you think he wants? And above all, do you think I should let him go and don't care about him?Thanks everybody :)M.(i'm sorry if my english is not that good, i'm Italian :])
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2010): Forget him. He is cheating on you. You should be strong enough to accept this fact. Your exbestfriend and that guy, stop talking to both of them and live this beautiful life for yourself. You deserve someone better and loyal.
Once a cheater is always a cheater.
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reader, Clover.Wildgust  +, writes (13 November 2010):
Well, If it wasn't for this guy would you still be friends with the other girl? And if he cant see how special you are then whats the point? And if you think about it he left you and your best friend went out with him he said he didnt like her then spent a day with her my guess is that he cant make up his mind if I was you I'd forget him. Please take that into consideration
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (13 November 2010):
He can say he wants you all he likes.
But, he's dating your friend, and he left you for her for a while back. He's not trustworthy, and is using this other girl. He's not a good guy at all. The best thing you can do is move on from him. He's not worth your time. Let him go. (p.s. tua inglese e perfetta!)
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