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writes:Ok. I Have a question out there for all the Ladies. I am 26 and still have not had sex. Yes I am still a virgin. Is this normal. Do you ladies still find this attractive? I feel weird when all my friends talk about sex. They expect me to have had sex, and I haven't. Help me out. I am not a shy guy. I just don't have much self esteem. I am a bigger guy and have been big my whole life. I think I am doing something wrong. I have seen many other big guys with girlfriends. Also.... Is it weird that I am not sexually attracted to bigger girls?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2010): I saved myself for marriage, and my husband didn't. I love him, but sometimes it makes me sick to my stomach if I think about his sexual past. You are doing your future spouse a huge favor!
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reader, r_a_w_r1645 +, writes (14 November 2010):
 honestly, i find it attractive. im only 15, but id rather no that the guy isnt a whore and not have to think of him having sex with other girls. it would be nice knowing that your his first.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks everyone for the input so far. It is sinking in. I don't want to rush out there and just chase anything that has two legs...and you get the rest. I cant stand those guys. It seems so demeaning to women. and I know i wouldn't want anyone in my family to have that done to them. I don't make it known that i am still a virgin. But I know people start asking questions. and its hard to have an answer for that. But thanks again!
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reader, KeighleySky  +, writes (13 November 2010):
 its perfectly natural for you to want a smaller more petite girl. Its the biological behaviour we've never been able to shake off. you want to have someone you can protect, someone you can wrap yourself around. my boyfriends nearly six foot and im 5'3. women love that aswell so it shouldn't be hard for you to find someone. And about your self esteem, it doesn't matter what you look like to the right woman it will be how you treat her, why you like her (not because of her boobs but personality) and what your like on the inside, meaning personality. if a girl bases all of her attraction on looks then she's not worth it, she'll be shallow and a selfish lover.
Hope we've all helped you :)
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reader, SillyB +, writes (13 November 2010):
 MY BF didn't lose his till her was 27...he spent his late 20's and early 30's catching up....I would have prefered he had stayed a virgin or had way less sexual partners.
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reader, followtheblackrabbit  +, writes (13 November 2010):
 I'd be thrilled! Like tennisstar said, you're a clean slate and I really, really don't appreciate men who go after every skirt they see. So, I think some other women would like it as well. Though others may want the more experienced type. Half and half. On the other hand, you like what you like. Just because you're bigger doesn't mean you have to like bigger woman. And just as some women are slim and petite, it doesn't mean they'll want a thin guy. My friend is barely 5'3 and her husband is a foot taller and weighs 260 pounds to her 103. Madly in love those two :)
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (13 November 2010):
 I think virgins are great because you can adjust them to your likings..Basically you're a clean slate and eager to learn new tricks. But do note that what one woman likes in the sack the next may not. Then you're going to have to learn new tricks of the trade then pretty soon you'll get your technique down.
If you don't like bigger women that's your preference..opposites attract.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2010): Hey buddy!
I recently lost mine at age 25 and while Im not big in terms of I guess heftiness if thats what u imply, I certainly had a mental breakdown in part of society's contribution to its ever so casual portrayal of the sexual act that I actually found myself in counseling to insert myself into the midst of a rather big life decision to well...lose it and to lose it to anyone.
You apparently havent gotten to that point yet at age 26 which Im thankful to see. Ask your buddies about hooking you up. Do you trouble meeting girls? Your job? Most women btw still find that attractive however Id keep this personal and wouldnt go off this board with it as I made the dumb mistake in adhering to some, not all, of womens thoughts on the matter as being "thats fine" or "thats no big deal" or "wow youre a gem"...to me that says oh we can deal with it but we'd rather prefer an experienced guy. If u want details on my encounter pls Pm me as I am ever so f****** certain it was the right thing logically for me to do. Forget emotions man...be careful with attaching them to such a casual act in that society. Its risky to do such a thing. My opinion of course and whatever you decide in ur decision, I full support and will hereby duly note that I think youre quite the gentlement for making the choices you have made and hopefully will be well rewarded with a great woman.
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