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writes:I asked my boyfriend on a scale of 1-10 what am I?He replied with Im an 8. Is that bad?I mean shouldnt he really think Im atleast a 9. Hes one of those guys who believes no-one is perfect so I understand not being a 10 but 8 really.I wonder if he thinks any girls out there are 9's? If he does then clearly he shouldnt/doesnt wanna be with me.Ok yes Ive taken that too far I know but 8 seriously. Anyone, maybe some guys shed some light on that....maybe tell me what ud rate ur gf's and why to see if its similar to my 8 or even less. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2010): An 8 is good. Hes being honest. Its only natural to wonder just how attractive we are to our partners. My sister once asked her partner what he would rate her looks between 1 to 10. He blithely gave her a 6. But then added that her 23 year old daughter rated an 8. The fall out from that remark lasted months. Your lad sounds honest and hes with you for more than your looks. That has to be a good thing x
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reader, cheekyfriday  +, writes (13 November 2010):
I just asked my boyfriend this question and he said a 10. I think he said a ten because he would be too scared to say a 9. hahahaha
However because he says a ten, i think well surely i am more and 8 than a ten, and is he lying to me.
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (13 November 2010):
 As I once heard, "you ask a loaded question you will get a loaded answer".
What's wrong with an 8? It's possible you got a point off for asking the silly question in the first place.
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reader, Jmtmj +, writes (13 November 2010):
 Xanthic said it all... you shouldn't ask loaded questions like this to begin with.
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reader, xanthic +, writes (13 November 2010):
 Okay, questions like this shouldn't be asked in the first place. You can't expect him to know to tell you what you want to hear, and 8 really isn't bad anyway. It's a non-issue.
Refrain from questions that are asked out of insecurity or a need for an ego boost in the future, because most of the time, you're not going to like the answer you get in spite of your boyfriend answering honestly.
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