I think she's straying again! What do I do?

A male age 51-59, *0mantired writes:

My wife and I separated in April of 2010. We battled for a few months and then I started moving on. In July she started coming around again. We had sex and started to spend more time together. She and I cried about missing each other and things started getting better. We got back together and moved in together in August. We have 3 kids at home, Six all together. We came clean with the things we did while we were separated and although I had met new people, she had been with someone she was talking to prior to our separation. She said she did not like him and only used him for money. I believe her. Well now it is back to the same thing. Only this time it is someone I have never heard of. I found text messages and phone calls on her phone and she got mad and said it was none of my business. She also told me not to worry that I am the only man she wants. She said that she was comfortable with me and was going no where. She posts pictures of herself all the time now and fixes herself up more than usual. She does not go out..but she does spend alot of time on Facebook and hides her phone. We have little of no intimacy and she says it is because of my anger. Yes I do get angry,, but I believe it is because I dont really trust her and it is hard to believe her. I want to trust her and I do love her. I have started taking anger mangmnt and am going to see a Doctor. I feel I have started taking the right steps but she remains the same. i dont know what to do.

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