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writes:Hey,Me and my boyfriend want to try anal sex, we have attempted it before but I want to be prepared this time. I got an anal douche, but I don't know how long before sex I should use it. Also, I travell up to his on the train (3 hours) will there be any problems with water leaking..? Any other advice for anal? I'm getting some KY too but he's pretty big and we've tried it a couple times before it hurt like hell. That's why I'm preparing myself for it this time. What positions are easiest? Or does it not matter? Help! Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2010): i find it easiest if im on top. im more used to it now, so i can take it in many positions, but when ur first trying it, make it clear to him that you dont want any help getting it in, if u put it in faster then u wan to, or it hurts, ur going to fast and its going to keep hurting threw out the session. if it comes out it is hard to get it back in unless you go just as slow as when u started, but once you over do it, then its over cause it wont quit hurting after that, so if it takes 5 min. to get in, then take the 5 min. after that moving on it is a breeze, just feels like you really have to go number2
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reader, largentsgirl89  +, writes (14 November 2010):
 Lots and lots and lots of lube. Make sure you are comfortable before you start. Hands and knees hurts the most. I find that laying on my side or if i'm the one on top it doesn't hurt as much because I control everything. Try fingering first if you don't have the butt plug and go very very slow. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2010): When my boyfriend and I had/have anal sex, it hurts like hell. But, when I lay on my side while he does it, it doesn't seem to hurt as bad. Also, use A LOT of lube and I mean A LOT otherwise, you can rip something back there and cause yourself to get infections or a disease. So I suggest trying laying on your side, that was the best for me! The worst is being on your hands and knees.
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reader, dmartin89 +, writes (13 November 2010):
 Roo Radely, this isn't about what you want in sex.
It can be spontaneous if you always keep condoms and lube next to the bed.
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reader, kirra07  +, writes (13 November 2010):
I find the easiest position is if you lie on your tummy, spread your legs a bit, and he lies down on top of you. It's hard for him to keep balance and move, but I find it hurts a lot less.
Preparation wise, get a small butt plug and use it on yourself. It helps get you used to the weird uncomfortable feeling, and stretches you out a little. Lots of lube, start with fingering, then butt plug, then finally him. And when he gets it in, don't let him pull out, because putting it back in hurts like hell. So get him to inch in slow, but not pull completely out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2010): Try laying on your side and using lube. my guy is pretty big too length and girth wise... but it doesnt hurt when me we do anal layin on our sides.
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