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writes: Does anyone else get upset when your boyfriend/girlfriend after a mind blowing love making session jumps (without any kind of cuddling or talk) to wanting to do something else. Like having friends come over or going to a bar with friends? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, KitKatsAndInsomnia +, writes (14 November 2010):
lol I have to tell mine to kiss me afterwards and then yep up and clean and onto what evers next.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2010): Hmm No never had this happen to me,been with my boyfriend 5 years and he always loves to cuddle and lay there for 30min lol
You should have a word with him,some men don't see it as a big deal or they might not know it upsets you.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (13 November 2010):
I get steamed when my husband does that! What you do is grab his arm and ask him to cuddle..that you just want to lay here and bask in the aftermath. If he doesn't get the message, it's best you tell him that it's appropriate and comforting to lay together and cuddle for a bit before engaging in other activities.
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (13 November 2010):
Yes that can be hurtful because sometimes its good to have a cuddle in bed, it makes us girls feel a bit used and neglected at times, which upsets us. just have a word with him because he might not realise that it hurts you, explain to him that you want to feel loved afterwards.
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