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Does anyone else's boyfriend jump after sex and are ready to engage in the next activity?

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Question - (13 November 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 14 November 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Does anyone else get upset when your boyfriend/girlfriend after a mind blowing love making session jumps (without any kind of cuddling or talk) to wanting to do something else. Like having friends come over or going to a bar with friends?

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A female reader, KitKatsAndInsomnia United States +, writes (14 November 2010):

lol I have to tell mine to kiss me afterwards and then yep up and clean and onto what evers next.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2010):

Hmm No never had this happen to me,been with my boyfriend 5 years and he always loves to cuddle and lay there for 30min lol

You should have a word with him,some men don't see it as a big deal or they might not know it upsets you.

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (13 November 2010):

tennisstar88 agony auntI get steamed when my husband does that! What you do is grab his arm and ask him to cuddle..that you just want to lay here and bask in the aftermath. If he doesn't get the message, it's best you tell him that it's appropriate and comforting to lay together and cuddle for a bit before engaging in other activities.

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (13 November 2010):

aunt honesty agony auntYes that can be hurtful because sometimes its good to have a cuddle in bed, it makes us girls feel a bit used and neglected at times, which upsets us. just have a word with him because he might not realise that it hurts you, explain to him that you want to feel loved afterwards.

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