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writes:Do guys usually open up after sex? What makes them want to talk about their personal stuff and feelings? Reply to this Question
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reader, largentsgirl89 +, writes (14 November 2010):
 In my experience, guys are more closed up after sex. Unless you have a relationship with them before you have sex and they trust you, are comfortable with you and love you. If it's a random one night stand or you two had sex so he would open up, then it's more than likely not going to happen.
If you guys trust each other and are in a comfortable place within your relationship then more than likely he will if you aren't, then more than likely he won't open up after sex.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (13 November 2010):
 Well some guys can feel really close to someone after sex if they are in a serious relationship, and they might just feel a bit emotional and vunerable and they might open up to there girlfriend, this is a good thing though it just shows that they are comfortable with her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2010): Ha! Id rarely say so miss...its just rather about trust and confident in the person youre revealing such things to that they will keep stuff private. Then again, in a different context, Ive revealed a lot of personal thing myself but have done so with the intent to help others by stating my experiences, that isnt necessarily opening up as i do leave some details out...its those unique girls we disclose those details to.If he opens up after sex, Id weary as sex is usually quite emotional and he's basing his decision on an emotional pleasure which can be possibly wrong of him because perhaps he doesnt use any logic in his decision to state his personal things and rather just says them simply cause he bonded in such a way physically. Make sense? Sounds kind of cold I know however when i analyzed de niros character from heat back in the day, this in a reality sort of sense and not film, does have its slight place within my idiots guide to relationships. Kind regards.
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reader, absolutelyinsane  +, writes (13 November 2010):
Sex is a completely different unit to feelings. Just because you guys are having sex, doesn't necessarily mean he will open up. And vice versa. If you want to get emotionally intimate, it takes a lot of time. Go on dates. Guys are generally very "activity" focused. So they prefer DOING things rather than talking. Therefore do a social activity that you will both enjoy. Maybe something he is passionate about. You'll definitely get to know him better and you'll definitely get some personal conversations out of it. Wishing you all the best.
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