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writes:Hey freinds pleae help me out of this confusion. Two years back i was in a relationship with a boy. I know at starting there was just attraction from both sides. We got involved in kissing, hugging, oral sex. after having 2 years relation we got seperated due to my transfer to nest state. We decided to break the relation. After that i started realising that i am in love with him. we started chating thru sms, phone calls. Then after a gap of one year we decided to meet . He came down to my city to meet me. We stayed together for three days in a hotel.We had sex this time. We had breakfast , lunch and dinner together. He used to eat in my plate. He visisted to church with me. He did shopping with me. He used made me to cross roads by holding my hand. In train also he used to hold my hand. At the time of parting he hugged me, kissed me. I asked him why he did sex with me, then he said becoz of feelings. But he did no commitment. Please tell me he loves me or not.
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reader, Probablylucy  +, writes (13 November 2010):
 It's the age-old question. I think that with any sex, it is usually 50-50 when it comes to physical attraction and actual feelings. Some people will only have sex once they are completely emotionally close, where as some people will have sex with a complete stranger just for the pleasure. You have to decide what sort of a person he is.
Have you seen him since? How long ago did this all happen? if he doesn't contact you it doesn't mean he was using you or that the weekend sex wasn't for love, he may have simply moved on and found someone else. Or he may just decide that he wants to be single for a little while. Either way, if he wants you, he'll call you. But try not to think about him. Chances are you will meet someone new that lives nearer, and who is more committed to you, and loves you for who you are :) good luck!
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reader, petina1 +, writes (13 November 2010):
 I'm taking it that you havent made plans to meet up again. You will find out if he loves you if you just wait, and wait to see if he calls you. Try not to call him first. He needs to be doing the running now and that will show you how he feels. Otherwise if it goes on for too long without him getting in touch I would think that he does not love you.
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reader, sofirex  +, writes (13 November 2010):
 hi, well that must have been some awesome 3 days! anyway i think that if he said he has feelings for you, he means that he is in love with you but he is too scared to say it. And he might be afraid to have a serious commitment like most men are. yes he loves you, try to have a big conversation with him and tell him that you want to be with him and maybe you could work everything out. and relax him if he is scared about serious stuff.
hope that helps :)
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