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writes:Okay, this has been an ongoing situation for a while now.This guy I've had feelings for, asked me to the ball next year. I don't know if he asked anyone else, and I'm not planning on asking. I said yes, and more recently he's been seeming to show more of an interest in me. We've talked a fair bit, but I can't read him. He's quite the social butterfly, but around me he seems to quiet down and be almost awkward (friends say nervousness). Last week, a friend put me in a situation where I had little alternative but to ask him out to a movie. It was very awkwardly done, because I completely wasn't expecting it, but we made plans for the following weekend. In the course of the next week I was off school for several days because of a migraine, and when I was back, he didn't interact at all. The next day he waited for me for 5 minutes despite being late to his next class. We walked and talked, and I brought up the movie. He said he was free on Saturday, and asked me to come by his locker after school to give him my number to confirm the session times.So I waited and he didn't text, in two days. Last night I asked a friend for his number, and texted him about it. We're going out tonight, and I still have no clue as to whether or not he likes me as more than a friend. My friends say that he definitely likes me, and he goes shy around me, but I know he's really lovely, and he might not have been able to turn down something like that.Any comments would be helpful, and sorry for the length! ":
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThankyou for your help~ It didn't work out that way, but it's good we can still be friends. :3
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2010): it's early days. Don't expect the world yet. Relax. Enjoy his company. Let him talk about himself, and listen intently to his answers, to discover more about him. Don't ask too much of him yet, he doesn't need a grilling about his intentions. The few questions, if you need to, should be kept to open questions that start with: what, how. After this allow him to make the next move.
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