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writes: Well there is this girl in my class, gretta( fake name). She's a tomboy and very much into basketball. She doesn't dress up, she wears gym clothes 24/7. So you get picture. Well before I met this girl, I was kind of iffy about her because I didn't know If she was gay/ straight. So now after getting to know her, were closer and actually pretty cool. BUT no she's getting a little touchy feely, the weird thing about it is that I like it sometimes. Other times I feel embarrassed by it and I slighty give her a hint letting her know that I don't swing that way. So what does this mean ? Do I have crush? Does she?do I like attention or what?please help? But before you answer, just letting you know, she likes touch my arms and hands a lot. Like during class it seems like we flirt a lot. But anyways help?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2010): Well im 15 & yes i know alot of gay grlx so sometimes when girls dress that way they b gay but sumtimes they dont..But yes she is flirting with you khuz i have a grl dhat do me the same way & she finale came out and told me she realli lykex meh & she knew i wasnt gay..
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (13 November 2010):
 Honey just because she's a tomboy, plays basketball, and wears gym clothes all the time doesn't mean she's a lesbian. It says she's very into sports.
It sounds like you just like the attention..touching your arm or hands doesn't tell me she's flirting. Since you're already thinking she's gay you're imaging her flirting with you as well. Do you guys even talk about boys? There's really no way to determine she's gay unless you come right out and ask her. If you don't like her then don't talk to her. Now, if you do then keep on flirting. It's ok to explore at your age, just within reason since you're still young.
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