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writes:thanks for the last help guys and girls it really helped me out. ive got another one for you now. my girlfriend and i have been dating for about 2 and a half months now, and i think were both pretty happy with our relationship. at least i know i am, but there have been some problems lately about her texting my best friend all the time. its almost everyday, and ive asked her to stop once before, but she got mad and said i dont know why this is such a big deal, and were just friends, and i dont care that they are, but they text all the time. i dont know whether i should make her stop or let it go. help me please. thanks
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (15 November 2010):
 Girls aren't on their phones 24-7, people do have lives..She was most likely engaging in her activity that needed her full attention, which means putting your phone down. Same thing goes for guys who text in hour intervals...People are busy, they get sidetracked or forget that their phone went off. Or if you have AT&T sometimes I don't get people's texts. There's millions of reasons, they all boil back to she's busy doing something. That's all.
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reader, hounds68 +, writes (15 November 2010):
hounds68 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionalso when we text i text my girlfriend and sometimes there are 1 hour or more or less long gaps where she doesnt text me back. we were texting today and for a few hours everything was fine, but then every fifth or sixth text there would be a really long gap where she wouldnt text me.could somebody help to explain to me what these are
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reader, hounds68 +, writes (15 November 2010):
hounds68 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyea i wouldnt care if she asked him about me or something, but thats not an all day everyday thing, and not to mention we were all at her house watching movies, and she was still texting him then. it wouldnt be a big deal besides how often she does it and what they talk about its not innocent trust me. they dont flirt with each other or nothing like that, but its still not innocent.
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reader, largentsgirl89 +, writes (14 November 2010):
 I don't agree with having your bf's best friend comforting you over something your boyfriend said, that to me, is stupid. Your girlfriend shouldn't be talking to your best friend all day. That is kinda weird. If they were talking about you or if she is asking him advice on you, since your best friend knows you best, then that would be okay. But since you know your best friend, you should ask him to stop texting her if it makes you that uncomfortable. It depends on if what they are talking about is innocent or not. I understand that girls don't understand how guys think. i don't think it's a big deal for her to talk to him as long as its innocent.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2010): You know, I'm in your girlfriend's position.
Lately I have been getting super close to my bf's bestfriend. And yes, like you, my boyfriend has been annoyed and mad about it. He complains and all.
Here is the reason I keep talking to his bestfriend:
First off to rest your heart, NO, its not because I feel for his bestfriend. Instead, its because I need advice from him. As a bestfriend, he knows my boyfriend instead out. Thus, he is the best person to talk to for advise and maybe even comfort me when I get upset over something my boyfriend said.
So maybe she is just asking him what to get you for your next birthday or something like that. Don't worry too much about it. =]
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (13 November 2010):
Is she texting him more so than you and it upsets you? Do you think they like each other? I'm with your girlfriend, I don't understand why it's a big deal. If you trust her there should be no issue. You can't make her stop texting him, that would be very controlling of you. All you can do is say you're not comfortable with it, or that it's getting annoying because her phone is always chiming. Ultimately, she's going to do what she wants.
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