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writes:Dear Cupid, It's me again and this is the follow-up to my original question " Am I wrong to be in love with my bestfriend". Well as of right now me and him are some what doing good but this week I haven't seen him, he hasn't been in school, he's never online , and he doesn't return my calls. I just recieved word from his brother that he left the school and that he didn't tell any of us including me. I'm not that upset that he decided to leave, I'm more upset at the fact that he decided to leave and didn't bother to talk to me about it. I also find out the reason he didn't tell us was because he didn't think anyone would care. It upsets me to know he really thinks noone cares about because I do, I love him with all my heart it kinda makes me think in my mind that for the 3 yrs we've been together he doubted everything I ever told him. I'm at my wits end I don't know how else I can prove to him that he does have someone outside of family that loves him and wants to make him happy. Please help mehttp://www.dearcupid.org/question/am-i-wrong-to-be-in-love-with.html Reply to this Question
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (26 December 2010):
 Ha what a jerk! Well, I pity this new girl that has to deal with his mental state..it's her problem now, no longer yours. Be glad that you're done with him. You gave it your all but he was the one who messed this up and that's on him.
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reader, BlackHeart24 +, writes (22 December 2010):
BlackHeart24 is verified as being by the original poster of the question I'm back after weeks of fighting me and my now ex boyfriend are over and done with. It seems that all the while I've been there for him supportive, and understanding it's come to my attention that he has a girl on the side and i kno this for a fact because he has her on his facebook along with pictures of them hugging and kissing(as if i wouldn't notice). It's also been brought to my attention that he's been lying to all of the people that have been worried about him this whole time.
I was stupid for believeing things would be different between us this time and I was equally stupid for falling in love with him
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reader, BlackHeart24 +, writes (14 November 2010):
BlackHeart24 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank You for the advice as I stated in the last letter he knows without a shadow of a doubt that I love him and will always be there for him, but I not sure if he feels the same for me, I get that he's emo but he doesn't realize that I need to know how he feels and if he's happy. If things don't get better and quick we may as well call off our engagement.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (13 November 2010):
I read your last question and I agree with Zuni..Have you made it clear to him that you are there for him if he ever needs you and that you love, cherish him very much. Also what kind of problems is he having that has caused him to leave school? You mention he's emo, so does he seem rather depressed at times? I need more information, right now I'm taking an educated stab at it.
He could very well be depressed it's possibly why he's shutting everyone out including you. Nothing personal against you, it's just that he needs to deal with whatever problems at hand on his own. No one can save the day for him, and if you do feel he is depressed I would urge you to tell his brother so you can have an intervention and convince him to seek professional help. Everyone deals with their problems in different ways.
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