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writes:you see. there is this guy whom i've been friends with for 5 years already. I'm almost 15 and he just turned 13 so he is younger than me. Last year i started to like him a lot and i was confused about that heartbreaking feeling you get when you think you don't have a chance due to age difference. But my friends told be not to worry about it cuz it didn't matter. So, i told him about my feelings last year and he didn't reject them but didn't accept them either, he seemed really happy though that someone actually had the guts to tell him...although he is seriously cute (although i hadn't realized until a friend told me). I gave him his first kiss and 2 more.Recently we've been really close to the point people think we are going out but we are not. He obviously knows i like him but i don't know what he feels...he sometimes wants me to accompany him when he goes around school before swimming practice (be both go to swimming) and in a recent competition where there were guys from my class which he had never met i was talking to them a lot and it was a biathlon so i went to greet them at the finish line but he wanted me to stay with him and he even grabbed my hand. The girls from his grade that were there were watching us but i still went so i was talking to them and he seemed jealous. Them sometimes he hugs me and sits next to me. And people say he smiles at me a lot more than he does to other people.The thing is that he is a really awkward cute guy and hesitates when this really close friends of us asked him in front of him if he like me so she asked "at least like a siste?"he looked at me and hesitated and agreed to it. but I really don't know what to do! but i really don't understand what he is thinking! if any guy over there can help me plz help.
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reader, Dorothy Dix  +, writes (13 November 2010):
Hi there. It does at least seem like he likes you, because he asks you to accompany him at different times. Also that he smiles at you more than he smiles at other girls.
Guys usually don't show or speak their feelings very often, and you can't ask him how he feels about you. You wouldn't do that anyway.
But you can take it that he at least likes you anyway.
Only time will tell how that develops.
So for now just be friendly and keep it light. Show him you are interested in him by finding out what he likes and dislikes, music, movies, books etc. Just get to know him a bit better, and see how it goes.
As you get to know more about him, things will naturally progress from there.
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reader, KissPEPPER +, writes (13 November 2010):
 Get him alone and ask him everything you want to know and everything you think he should know about how you feel, sounds like he likes you :)
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