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female
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51-59,
anonymous
writes: I started talking to a guy I met online. It is long distance. After three months I went to visit him. We both totally fell in love. We have so much in common. Recently his behaviors have changed a lil and Ive become needy out of insecurity cuase of the distance. We split up by him saying he needs time. He says he loves me and he misses me. But Im trying to respect his request of needing time. Does that mean that he really just wants to break it off and doesnt know how to say it? Should I just walk away and cut my losses?
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reader, angelDlite +, writes (22 January 2011):
hi
do you feel as if you CAN walk away and just get on with your life? if so, then i would agree that you should. you live far away from him and it makes you needy and insecure and he has cooled towards you for some reason and then broke up with you. these are not good signs.
give him 'time' don't put your own life on hold while you wait for the word from him
xx
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