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writes: Ok so me n this guy were seeing each other n everything was fine n everything was completley normal. I fell in love with him after only 1 month. Never in my entire life, have I ever loved someone so much! When I first met him, I didn't think anything of him and I didn't like him. In the beginning he was the one who liked me, n who was always asking me to see each other and I thought nothing of him. The third time I hungout with him I realized how much I liked him n he felt the same way. We started seeing each other after that, and I was the happiest I've ever been in my life n I never felt any feelings like that before. Everything was perfect. about a month later on my birthday he called me for last time. I didn't answer on that day so I called the next day. We were supposed to see each other that day but he said nothing about it, but he was acting normal. He said he would call me back later that night, but never called. At school, when I saw him once I went up to him and acted normal and was like "I never talk to you anymore!" He was like"because you never call me". But, I do not call him because he was the one who was supposed to call me back n he was the one who would call me everyday and we would text from the second I woke up to the second I went to bed.He has not called me since then and it has now been a little over a month. I have not called him because I know he would have called if he wanted to talk. Now when I see him at school, I ignore him and act as if he's not there. At first when he would see me he would act like I was supposed to say hi to him, but I would ignore him so I think he feels like I'm mad at him. Now he ignores me too, because he knows I do. The past month I have cried more than I have in my entire life. The reason this is really strange and hard is because i have never ever ever ever ever cried over a guy in my life. There is not a second of my day that he is not on my mind and I have not been happy in over a month. I wear his sweatshirts to bed every night. i play the titanic song because I watched that movie w him and I have saved many of the old text messages he has sent me. I have also been so depressed I called an on the phone counselor. I duno what to do n I know everyones telling me forget him, he's not worth it but I can't help the way I feel and I cant help the fact that I cry my eyes out on my bathroom floor every single night for a month. I feel no hapiness in my life without him. I would give up anything just for him to call. I miss him sosososoooo muchh !!! Please help me ! What should I do? Do you think he will ever call again?
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reader, PurityChild +, writes (14 November 2010):
Hey girl, So I have been dating my boyfriend of a month now...and when we first started going out he texted me everyday not he kinda of skips a few days in between. I end up caving in and texting him...but we always end up okay, I think that you should text him as a (concerned) friend and say Hey I haven't talked to you in a while, we used to talk all the time...what happend? and leave it at that, if he does not reply then it was not meant to be but if he does then you know what to do after that lol...
hope this helps =)
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reader, JustKalie1010 +, writes (14 November 2010):
I understand how you feel!
I really think you should talk to him... maybe he feels the same, but he doesn't know how to express it. Just tell him you miss him. You're sorry about everything that has happened. Tell him you want to start fresh? Whats the worst that can happen? He might even agree
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