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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: Hello. I met this guy when I was 16 and he was 18 on the internet. We were friends for about 2 years,and always liked each other. We began dating and have been together for 7 months. I love him alot, but he lives in the north and i live in the south. We have been through alot, from him moving from state to state and having periods of not talking for months. But we remain together.... My question is Im starting college this fall and im not sure if i want to continue dating this guy, we havent met but plan to. We talk about getting married and me living where he lives. Ive told him that im starting college soon, and he just tells me he will wait for me no matter what bc ive waited for him. Our lives, childhood, teenage years are SOO SIMILAR, he tells me he trust me more than anyone, and loves me more than anyone. He and I are both virgins, and talk about getting married.... but i dont know if its worth it? Whenever I talk about possibly breaking up he tells me he'll kill himself and gets readlly depressed even when i bring up breaking up.... Should i continue to date him when college starts or call it quits? Pleaseee Help
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reader, person12345 +, writes (14 June 2010):
It seems like a lot of heartache to go through a long distance relationship through college with someone you've never even met. But since it's already long distance, and you've yet to meet him, it will continue to be pretty much the same through college except you'll have more opportunities with other guys. No one can tell you whether you should or shouldn't stay with him, that's entirely your call.
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