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writes:Ok so first time doing this here's my question. I'm 23 and the girl i'm seeing is 18. We hooked up on New Years when i was 22. She's really mature for her age though sometimes it apparent i'm the older. At the start i wanted it kept on a pretty quiet whereas she wanted it told to the world lol. We went out about once/twice a week cinema,zoo, couple of drinks etc. Then after in April i had to move to France for a job i was genuinely gutted about it all and she cried.While in France we kept in touch through the odd text and skyped a lot! Thing didnt work out with the job though and after 2 months i came back. She was eccstatic when i told her and truth be told although she wasn't the reason i was looking forward to seeing her. I liked her more and more as i was in France and seeing as everyone already knew about me and her once i left i wanted to see how things would go. Since i've ben back however (3 weeks ago now) i've seen her twice. All day both times. Its weird but i just get the feeling shes not as interested as before. Before it was texting constantly and now it's the complete opposite! I know that it's a bad time for her as she has important exams at the minute and she's working hard at them. Thing is i'm heading back to France in September and she's going to Australia for 6 months in September too. Even though i hate 'the talk' i've tried to brooch what will happen come that time. But we both go awkward and it gets complicated. From what i can gather from her though she doesn't want a relationship when i'm in another country. but doesn't want things to stop now. On my side i don't mind a relationship now as i hate the thought of her with someone else, and to be honest i can't really see how she can say she'll still have fun with me here, go of to Australia and be with other people then come back and see where we're at. Am i right in thinking this or am i just being selfish? I can get a little proud sometimes n a little stubborn so maybe this has something to do with it? Thanks!!!
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reader, rivi  +, writes (13 June 2010):
Just enjoy your summer together [ unless she cools even more than you say ].
It's pointless to make commitments beyond that : she'll meet up with hunky Oz guys and you'll hook up with filles fran,caises so just ENJOY !!
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