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writes:How can i rekindle my relationship? Im back with my boyfriend after almost two months of being apart. The reason we broke up was because our relationship became a routine , and he said he had stopped loving me. He was the one to look for me and all that i was having doubts about us getting back together but he said we should try . At this point i dont know what his feelings for me are , he only told me with time i'll be able to see what he felt for me. I jst want some advice to see if i can make my relationship more fun and interesting so the samething wont happen to us again. We dont really talk bcuz theres really not much to talk about. Any advice anyone can give me to add a little spark to our relationship again. Btw we're having our baby in a couple of days so any physical activity is kinda hard. :) thanks
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reader, rcn +, writes (14 June 2010):
 Once the baby comes, there will be a lot of changes, most of which will seem routine. There is nothing exciting about spitting up and changing diapers. His taking part in that process, however can bring you two closer together.
In situations, such as yours, I recommend doing date nights. Once a week, having a sitter, and you two have time just for your relationship. One week he chooses and plans, and you show up. The next week you choose and plan and it's his obligation to show up and take part in what you chose. Don't reveal what the plans are before hand. I've heard of people who, the day of that date, leave their partner and invitation to the date, with subtle direction on where to show up and what time.
You two choose the direction of your relationship. Don't let life dictate which direction that will be, in other words, just going with the flow.
I hope this helps. Take care.
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