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writes:Help with the senario!? What should I do/ What's going through his mind...- I'm 18 he's 22-I'm going to college out of state in 4 months-We met, didn't want anything serious to begin with but things changed.. now we have been exclusivley dating for a while.-He's said I love you, I'm perfect for him, I'm the best thing for him... ect.-He is so sweet in person-Horrible at calling/ texting.-Works a construction job and he's always sleeping (or that's what he tells me)-2 weeks ago was the last time I saw him. We have been bickering on and on about why he won't call or why he'll flake out on plans but he assured me everything was okay with us. -We made plans fri. and he stood me up and I haven't heard from him since. - This isn't the first time he's said we would hang out and then i try and call him to see what we're doing and nothing... :(what do i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2010): You stop taking his calls and text messages. A guy who is in love will rarely stand up the woman he professes to love. The guy is not into you, that is a reflection on him not you. If you continue to accept this kind of treatment from men, you will get more of the same.
You deserve better. You also cannot assume that you have an exclusive relationship with a man until he commits to that with you... I have a feeling he threw up on you all these "feelings" but he did not ask you to be exclusive with him, just a hunch.
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reader, Artistry +, writes (14 June 2010):
 Hi, Do you want someone to tell you what you are already aware of? He's not ready to be serious or committed or even dating consistently without commitment. He may care for you, but if you would check out his history with women, you would prpobably see the same thing with a few other girls. Let him go on his way, you are going to college anyway and that will only make it worse. He is not the steady type. If you want someone who has a hard time communicating when you want to stay connected then he's your guy, he is who he is. Better to go to school and see what kind of grass is out there. "o) It may well be greener. Chalk it up to experience and be glad you were not in any deeper before he did the same thing and disappeared. Enjoy college and the rest of your life. Be happy.
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